I try to express to him how this hurts me and confuses me but he turns on that “I don’t care” attitude and it’s like he never even knew me.That will last for about 2 days and then the next week he’s right back loving me.
If he continues this pattern until January 2008 for example, then you should move on. He is unlikely to be concerned for how his behavior is troubling you for example.
Letting go of a confused man within the first few months of dating is much easier than being left by a confused man after a few years of dating.
Sometimes those mixed signals have nothing to do with the fact that you have been nagging a tad bit too much lately, that you feel your shape is unflattering a few days out of each month, or that he is attempting to ‘get his life together’; instead he may not feel that extra connection that allows him to pursue anything more than being your friend with benefits.
So how do you know if he is really confused and isn’t stringing you along until his ‘Ms. I’ve often heard, if a man wants to be with you he will be with you.
While I agree to a certain extent with this statement, I don’t think it’s always that simple.
Sometimes there really are other factors preventing him from being with you despite the fact that he actually wants to; but most times if a man feels you are the one, he won’t be so confused and his actions won’t change so frequently.