Sex tonight no cards
You need: A big towel or blanket and a bottle of massage oil or cream. Why: You will really be surprised at the difference a little lubricant makes in the feeling of skin on skin. Tip: Don't put mint or eucalyptus oil on sensitive genital areas.How to play: Spread your towel on the bed or carpet and grease each other up with massage oil — legs, torso, breasts, everywhere. But if you have a non-irritating lubricant, greasing up the sexual equipment can be part of the fun.You need: Scissors, a brand-new razor, and shaving cream. First, take a hot bath to soften your skin and hair. Third, lie on the bed or on a table and let that shaving expert, your mate, foam you up and shave you.
NSA stands for No Strings Attached and refers to casual sex where both parties are just looking for sex without the commitment.
"Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pre-game show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together. Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects—it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability.
You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. Then proceed to ravish him — slowly, recklessly, teasingly — however you feel like doing it. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac (maybe you've heard of You need: Four neckties, or more elaborate restraints available at sex-toy stores or online; a bed, preferably one with bedposts.
You get really creative and You need: A scarf, necktie, or a blindfold. How to play: He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.
Why: It can be incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.